Corosync adds 650 milliseconds per node: the clock your upgraded cluster is still carrying
The time a Proxmox cluster takes to re-form membership after losing a node is not fixed: it grows by 650 ms for every node you add, and on factory values a 29-node cluster reaches 45.21 seconds — exactly where the documentation itself asks you to fix it, before the 60-second watchdog starts rebooting healthy nodes. Proxmox VE 9.2 lowered it to 125 ms, but only when the cluster is created: clusters upgraded from 8 to 9 keep the old value.