The switchless Ceph mesh has four variants. Two of them break on one cable
Three nodes wired directly to each other at 25 GbE, with no switch to buy, is one of the best decisions you can make on a small budget. Proxmox documents four ways to wire it and only two survive a single link going down: in the other two, its own wiki says, "the nodes now have a different view" and Ceph reports services as down that are perfectly alive. Since Proxmox VE 9 that mesh is configured from the web interface, with four fabric protocols. And the official documentation still labels that layer tech preview.